Insight

Newspaper night - a themed youth evening of icebreakers, games and talk!

The amazing Newspaper Night is great for younger teenagers. Encourage your group to invite their friends to a suitable venue for a night to remember. Make sure you have a large supply of old newspapers collected in the preceding weeks.

Read through the games carefully before you use them. Many are based on common party games and adapted through generations of youth leaders. It's probably impossible to say who first thought up any of these games, but whoever you are, thanks!

Although most of the games feature friendly competition, please don't emphasise 'winners' or 'losers', emphasis the fun! Award a small prize for each game, as many of the young people could gain several during the course of the evening. The 10 games that follow are some of my favourite newspaper games and have worked with many different groups.

Foot Party - a themed youth evening of icebreakers, games and talk.

Here's a fun youth night with a challenge and only using your feet! Great for smaller groups and small spaces. Advertise the event and emphasise that bare feet will be required. Don't explain too much, build the anticipation! Girls should be wearing jeans or trousers.

Remember that in some cultures this themed evening cannot be used. As always, be enthusiastic and join in yourself. Ask everyone to remove their shoes at the beginning of the evening.

FOOT SIGNING

Give each young person a felt tip marker and tell them they have one minute to get as many signatures on one foot as possible. When the time is up, go around and count them, to find the winner. Remember not to emphasise the winning but the fun. Interaction, building relationships, co-operation, working together are the goals of the themed games, leading to a linked time of teaching and discussion.

Resource review

Pointing you in the direction of youth ministry resources, thought provoking articles, interviews and comments on youth work and leadership.

Essential (a UK site) aims to support youth workers as they help young people explore the simplicity and complexity of Christian faith in a fresh, dynamic, life-changing way. It's designed to help young people get a good grasp on Christian teaching so their own faith is strengthened and they can talk effectively with those who don't share their beliefs. Check out the FAQ section for responses to the tough questions young people ask and group discussion starter material.

Reel Worship is also UK site and well worth checking out if you're looking for worship backgrounds and video material. A simple registration process allows you to access the FREE worship resources. They say, 'ReelWorship' is a site created by the team behind FreeFoto.com. The site is dedicated to providing multimedia content and resources for use in the work of the Christian community. Join to access all these free resources, including high resolution video, images and new music resources.' I say, check out the video 'When I survey'. Excellent.

Youth Ministry Ideas Steve's site is now one year old and contains a wealth of ideas and resources for youth ministry. Steve invites his readers and visitors to participate in developing this great resource for youth leaders. If you want to contribute an idea or article, I'm sure he'd love to hear from you. The best personal recommendation I can give for Youth Ministry Ideas is that I subscribe to Steve's site.

Rethinking Youth Ministry Brian and Jacob 'think out load' about youth ministry with thought-provoking, challenging comments, news, book reviews and creative ideas. If you've not come across their blog before, it's well worth investing a few minutes to check it out. Brian and Jacob will certainly give you something to reflect on and consider.

Relational Youth Work The first of two newer blogs I've stumbled on. Nigel shares his reflections, advice, stories and comments on relational youth ministry and helping youth workers find a better way to build community among their young people. Nigel has already added several excellent posts to his site. Well worth a visit.

Dave Trenholm Another new blog which promises to be an excellent resource as more posts are added by Dave. He says we should regard his site as 'a toolbox for anyone wanting to make an impact on the lives of young people - specifically in the areas of youth group, mentoring, discipleship, and camp ministry.'

Leading by example - more food for thought

'We learn by example and by direct experience because there are real limits to the adequacy of verbal instruction.' Malcolm Gladwell

'Leadership is practiced not so much in words as in attitude and in actions.' Harold S. Geneen

'The youth worker is not primarily a talker or organiser, he is a model, a person who by the power of his Christian example motivates a dedication to Jesus Christ.' Lawrence Richards

'Example is not the main thing in influencing others. It is the only thing.' Albert Schweitzer

'We must become the change we want to see in the world.' Mahatma Gandhi

Balloon Bonanza - a themed youth evening of icebreakers, games and talk!

Make your youth night go with a bang. All you need are LOTS of balloons. A few years ago I was leading a weekly church youth night for a lively bunch of 11-14's. We played some games together before a time of teaching, or as the kids called it 'The God Slot'.

I wanted a more unified and purposeful 'feel' to the whole evening, so I decided to try and theme some icebreakers and games together with a clearer link to the teaching. The result was several themed evenings including Balloon Bonanza.

This is a great evening for lively groups and can be played in a large room or outside on a calm day. It can be used as a youth club night, holiday club session, camp night or bring-a-friend night. Although some of the games feature friendly competition, please don't emphasise 'winners' or 'losers', emphasis the fun! What follows is not an exhaustive list of balloon related games, just ones which have worked for me. Please add your own games to my selection.

Breaking more ice - 10 more icebreakers for small groups

This is a follow up article to 'Breaking the ice-using icebreakers in small groups'. It contains games you can use with a small group in your home without feeling a tornado just came through!

Carefully prepared icebreakers can provide a positive momentum for small group Bible study and discussion. They can help new members to integrate into a group, encourage participation and cooperation, build a rapport with the group leader and help young people to feel comfortable with each other and in their surroundings.

The 10 icebreakers which follow are some of my favourites and more importantly, ones I've used successfully. They can all be used across a wide age range and you only need a few props. Many are based on common party games and adapted through generations of youth leaders. It's probably impossible to say who first thought up any of these games, but whoever you are, thanks!